Qingming Festival is also one of China's traditional sacrificial festivals. So, let's take a look at whether we can get engaged during Qingming Festival in 2021? Is it okay to get engaged on Qingming Festival? The calendars commonly used in China are the solar calendar and the lunar calendar, also known as the Gregorian calendar and the lunar calendar. The Gregorian calendar and the lunar calendar can be converted into each other. For details on the special content of February of the lunar calendar in 2021, please visit Mr. Shui Mo’s website!Can’t get engaged during Qingming Festival in 2021?February 23, 2021 (Lunar calendar)Aries (Sunday, April 4, 2021) 【Today’s lunar calendar is suitable】 Weddings, gatherings of relatives and friends, cleaning, matchmaking, engagement, betrothal, engagement, bed setting, livestock adoption, burial, pastoral care, coffining, moving the coffin, mourning period, removing mourning clothes, adopting children, moving the grave, seeking an heir. From the above [What is suitable for today in the old almanac], we can see that there are options for matchmaking and engagement on that day, so we can get engaged. Is it okay to get engaged on Qingming Festival?Not good. From the perspective of traditional customs, it is not recommended to get engaged during the Qingming Festival.The main reason is that the engagement atmosphere during Qingming Festival is not festive enough, and people who go home during Qingming Festival usually go to sweep graves and worship their ancestors. If you get engaged at this time, people will at most go for a drink, and you will feel that your marriage is not taken seriously. Qingming Festival is a day for sweeping graves and worshiping ancestors, which is a bit inappropriate. Qingming Festival is an activity to commemorate the deceased. Qingming Festival sacrifice is very important. Moreover, filial piety is very important in China. Getting engaged during this period will make people think that you are an unfilial person and someone who has forgotten your ancestors. Therefore, it is not a good idea to get engaged during Qingming Festival. What do you need to prepare for an engagement?1. Four gifts: cigarettes, alcohol, tea, and sugar. These four must be in double portions.2. The betrothal money given to the woman to buy clothes depends on each family, and the customs in different regions are also different. Some families have diamond rings and jewelry included in this money. 3. Jewelry: diamond ring, three golds, jade bracelet, ruby ring. Of course, this should be chosen according to your actual situation. It does not mean that the more expensive it is, the better it is. What matters is the thought behind it. 4. Cakes. Some people are particularly particular and want two cakes, one with a dragon and one with a phoenix. 5. For flowers, order a bouquet of 99 red roses, preferably wrapped in black paper, which has a low-key and high-end feel. |
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