Can I go back to my parents’ home during the Spring Equinox in 2021? What are the etiquettes for a daughter to return to her parents’ home?
Speaking of going back to one’s parents’ home, I believe many friends are also quite concerned about it. So, let’s take a look at whether we can go back to our parents’ home during the Spring Equinox in 2021? "Flowers bloom in February", the second month of the lunar calendar is also called the Apricot Month. For auspicious and inauspicious analysis of matters related to marriage, moving, signing contracts, etc., please visit the special column of February 2021 of the lunar calendar on Shuimoxiansheng.com!Can I go back to my parents’ home during the Spring Equinox in 2021?Whether or not you can go back to your parents' home during the Spring Equinox in 2021 can be analyzed from two aspects.Analyze from the old calendar The seventh day of the second month of the lunar year 2021 (lunar calendar) Friday, March 19, 2021 (Gregorian calendar) Pisces 【Today’s lunar calendar is suitable】 There is no option to travel on that day, so it is not recommended to go back to your mother's home. Analyzing from traditional customs From the perspective of traditional customs, it is not recommended to go back to your parents' home on this day. The main reason is the welcoming of spring, the beginning of spring, the vernal equinox, and the Spring Festival. Girls must hide when spring comes! There is a folk saying: Going back to your parents' home in spring, there will be a new spring next year, which means there is a risk of divorce. Another saying: In spring, when yin and yang interact, the energy is mixed. Married women go back to their parents' home to take advantage of the spring, which may hinder the marriage of brothers. Another saying is: Spring is the beginning of the year, and returning to your parents' home in spring can easily bring good luck from your husband's family to your parents' home. Whether from the perspective of the lunar calendar or traditional customs, it is not recommended to return to your parents' home during the Spring Equinox in 2021. What are the etiquettes for a daughter to return to her parents’ home?Rule 1: Go home before sunsetAccording to the traditional customs in rural areas, a daughter must return to her parents' home to pay respects to her parents three days after her marriage. This is also called "returning to the door". However, it should be noted that on the day of the "return to the door", she must return to the groom's home before sunset and not stay overnight at her parents' home, otherwise people will think that her parents' home will be unlucky. Tip 2: Don’t visit relatives during the wedding period A married daughter is like spilled water. In some places, newlyweds are very particular about this. They have to be careful when visiting other people's homes right after getting married, because the elderly have a taboo about brides on their honeymoon, thinking that it is unlucky for others. Therefore, brides should try not to visit other people's homes during their honeymoon period. Rule 3: Daughter and son-in-law cannot sleep together when they return to her parents' home This requirement actually existed in the past when every family had many children. During festivals, the daughters and sons-in-law would come back and there would be no room for them to sleep together. So it would be easy for the men to squeeze in and the women to squeeze in, so the daughter and son-in-law could not sleep together. At the same time, some elderly people also believed that when they went back to their parents' home, they would deliberately avoid having their daughter and son-in-law rest together. |
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