The choice of an auspicious day for the funeral is also very important, but not all days chosen by people are good. So, let’s take a look at, can the funeral be held on November 14th of the lunar calendar in 2020? Is it okay to have the funeral that day? "Winter Solstice is as important as New Year's Day." It is both one of the 24 solar terms and a traditional festival of the Chinese nation. Make an appointment with Mr. Shui Mo in the eleventh month of the lunar calendar and spend the winter solstice with you.Can a funeral be held on the 14th day of the 11th lunar month in 2020? Is it okay to have the funeral that day?Lunar calendar: November 14, 2020 Gregorian calendar: December 28, 2020, Monday, Capricorn【Today’s lunar calendar is suitable】 Pray for blessings, get married, build, break ground, take up a post, install beds and stoves, accept marriage proposals, offer sacrifices, pray for offspring, remove pillars, raise beams, plant, build houses, perform funerals, dig wells and catch [Today’s taboos in the almanac] From the above [Today's Almanac], we can see that there is no burial option on that day, so funeral is not recommended. Detailed information on funeral arrangements1. The mourning cap is torn off in front of the graveWhen the second generation of farmers return home to attend a funeral, the elders in the family will definitely instruct them that the mourning hat and mourning clothes they wear to the funeral should be torn into cloth before returning after the burial, except for their own children. 2. Do not turn back on the way back after the burial You can cry during the burial, but you cannot shed tears or look back on the way back. You must act resolute. It is said that if you look back while crying, the deceased will feel sorry for you and will follow you back home. 3. Paying money for funeral troubles During funerals in rural areas, if you need to borrow something from a neighbor, no matter how much, you must give the neighbor money so as not to owe the deceased a favor and avoid being "nagging" in the future. This is the most taboo for rural people. Even if you give someone 50 cents, they have to give it to them, and they will definitely take it, so as not to cause them trouble. 4. No tombstone for a new grave In the movies, tombstones are erected on all new graves. This was very strange in ancient rural areas. In fact, there are some rules for erecting a tombstone: ① If one of the parents is still alive, a tombstone cannot be erected; ② No tombstones are erected on new graves; ③ A tombstone is erected for three generations, that is, if no tombstone has been erected for the great-grandfather or grandfather, a tombstone cannot be erected for the father's generation. 5. One parent dies alone and cannot afford a grave Those low, slightly raised graves in rural fields usually represent single deaths where the other half is still alive. According to rural folk customs, a high grave mound invites people to come. In order to ensure that the elderly who are still alive can live a healthy and long life, graves are generally not built for single deceased persons. After both parents die, they are buried together and then the grave is built and properly constructed. Is the hexagram for the day in the almanac good?The hexagram of today in the Old Emperor's Calendar is Water and Heaven Xu (Xu hexagram). Xu hexagram is a middle-upper hexagram that represents keeping to the right path and waiting for the opportunity. [Xiang says]: A bright pearl has been buried for a long time in the earth, and has been dull until now. Suddenly, a strong wind blows away the earth, and it naturally reveals itself anew. This hexagram is composed of two different hexagrams (lower Qian and upper Kan) stacked on top of each other. The lower hexagram is Qian, which means strong and firm; the upper hexagram is Kan, which means danger and pit. When you encounter danger, you should be prudent and cautious, not act rashly. Watch the situation and wait for changes, and you will surely succeed.[Career]: The key is to assess the situation, wait patiently, and accomplish things in peace. Do not take risks, as haste makes waste. You must be confident, fearless in the face of danger, and stick to the middle way, and you will be able to overcome the danger. When the situation is favorable, we still need to be prepared for danger. [Doing business]: At the beginning of the action, the situation is difficult. You must have great patience, create conditions and opportunities, act in an upright manner, observe the situation and realize your wishes. When things are close to success, you should be more careful and cautious, and never fail at the last moment. [Seeking fame]: The time is not yet ripe, you should wait patiently. At this time, you should be firm in your beliefs, not be shaken by gossip, work hard to enrich yourself, and then seek help from reliable people, and you will succeed. [Going out]: You will be safe if you are fully prepared. [Marriage and love]: Be cautious and do not act rashly. Develop feelings gradually and treat each other with honesty and enthusiasm. Even if unexpected events occur, there can still be a good ending. Both sides should understand the principle of using softness to overcome hardness. [Decision]: The future is bright, the ambition is great, and it is achievable. To do this, one needs to accumulate strength, wait for the opportunity, and achieve success later in life. I have a strong will and a calm mind. You will encounter difficulties and obstacles on the way forward. You must be extremely cautious, face the slander of villains calmly, and remain calm in the face of disasters. Don't act rashly, choose your direction calmly. Being modest and frank, he often receives help from others, which leads to career success. When the time is right, everything will go smoothly. From ancient times to the present, everyone’s destiny is different. Do you want to know what your destiny is? Click on the following exquisite calculation to predict your destiny. |
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