Engagement is an important moment in life and should of course be taken seriously. Two young people are about to enter the marriage hall. Engagement before marriage is a very important step. The engagement process also requires the newlyweds to know and prepare in advance. So is it a good idea to get engaged on the Great Heat Day in 2020? Is it an auspicious day? What do you need to prepare? At this time of the sixth lunar month, the north and south of the country are experiencing scorching heat. The scorching sun is scorching everything, and everything seems to be scorched, so it is called the "Scorched Month". For more information about the sixth lunar month in 2020, please visit Mr. Shui Mo's website for related topics! Is it a good idea to get engaged during the Great Heat of 2020? Is it an auspicious day? Gregorian calendar July 22, 2020 Wednesday Lunar calendar June 2020 (small) second day of the first lunar month Gengzi year Guiwei month Bingyin day Zodiac sign Rat constellation Leo constellation Liu (Liu Tu Zhang) Natal constellation Fetal god occupies the direction of the kitchen stove outside the stove due south Peng Zu's hundred taboos Bing If you don't repair the stove, you will see disasters Yin Don't sacrifice to gods and ghosts, don't taste the conflicting evil spirits conflicting monkey (Gengshen) evil spirits north [suitable] Renovation, opening of business, marriage , license application, construction, groundbreaking, engagement, burial, opening of business, seeking offspring, taking office, breaking ground, building, praying, offering sacrifices, opening of business, receiving wealth, drilling, catching, removing mourning clothes, getting married, receiving betrothal gifts, meridian establishment, erecting columns, planting, fasting, offering sacrifices, fishing [taboos] Moving into a new house, installing a bed, beam removal, bringing in livestock, moving, felling trees, building a house, seeking medical treatment, sailing Conclusion: Judging from the old almanac, this day is an auspicious day for engagement, so you can choose to get engaged on this day! What do you need to prepare for an engagement?Things the man needs to prepare for the engagement:The clothes, shoes, socks, necklaces, bracelets, rings, earrings and other gold jewelry given to the woman should be in even numbers and can also be converted into cash. The betrothal gift is agreed upon by both parties and can be divided into two types: a large betrothal gift and a small betrothal gift. The woman will accept a small betrothal gift instead of a large one. The big betrothal gift is used to purchase the dowry. Nowadays, the woman generally does not accept it. It also states that the dowry or the items needed for the marriage shall be prepared by the man. The small betrothal gift is called "wet nurse money" in the Hakka villages in the southern part of the province. Its purpose is to give it to the future mother-in-law to repay her for raising her. In the north it is called "clothing money", and its purpose is to buy clothes for the bride. Gifts can be divided into gift boxes, gift cakes, large cakes (a box of several pounds is popular in the south), winter melon candy and ring cakes (popular in northern Taiwan), betel nuts and rock sugar (popular in southern Taiwan) and other kinds of candies and biscuits. The total can be twelve or six items with the gift cakes, but the number of items should be an even number. The quantity of gift boxes, gift cakes or pancakes has been agreed upon in advance between the matchmaker and the woman. If the man and woman live far away from each other, the woman can also order the gift in cash with the consent of both parties. In addition, prepare two portions each of gold, incense, candles, and firecrackers, and pack lotus root, banana, taro, grain seeds, pig iron, charcoal, etc. into a package. The engagement banquet is usually hosted by the woman, and the number of men present, including the male fiancée, is an even number, and the woman is given a "thank you gift" as a banquet gift. In the past, the so-called six etiquettes included chef etiquette (cooking etiquette), dish serving etiquette (duan etiquette), washbasin etiquette (washing etiquette), welcoming and seeing off etiquette (xie etiquette), makeup etiquette (hairpin etiquette) and tea serving etiquette. The items that the woman needs to prepare are as follows: The clothes, shoes, belts, purses, rings (tokens) and other items of the male betrothed should be in an even number and given to the man on the engagement day. They can also be converted into cash. If the bride price is not to be accepted, the bride price sent by the man should be given to the matchmaker to be returned to the man. After the ring-wearing ceremony, the wedding cakes and "golden incense, candles and firecrackers" sent by the man are offered to the ancestors, and the required part is collected, and the remainder is returned in an even number (six boxes or twelve boxes). And prepare an engagement banquet to invite the male guests. |
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