Is June 16, 2019 a good date for Father's Day? Is today's Father's Day suitable for proposal and engagement?

Is June 16, 2019 a good date for Father's Day? Is today's Father's Day suitable for proposal and engagement?
Introduction: In the traditional culture of our country, it is also necessary to choose an auspicious day for the proposal of marriage and engagement. So is June 16, 2019 a good date for Father's Day? Is today's Father's Day suitable for the proposal of marriage and engagement? Pomegranate flowers are in full bloom in May of the lunar calendar. Han Yu has a poem that says "The pomegranate flowers in May are bright to the eyes". If you want to know more about May of the lunar calendar in 2019, come to Mr. Shui Mo!

Is June 16, 2019 a good date for Father's Day? Is today's Father's Day suitable for proposal and engagement?

Father's Day calendar query on June 16, 2019:
May 14, 2019 (Lunar calendar)
June 16, 2019, Gemini (Sunday)
【Today’s lunar calendar is suitable】
Marry, travel, start drilling, repair graves , bury, accept marriage proposals, recruit sons-in-law, plant, establish contracts, raise livestock, tailor clothes, meridians
[Today’s taboos in the almanac]
Build a house, offer sacrifices, pray for blessings, build, break ground, build embankments, release water, open warehouses, move into new homes, install incense, open markets, seek wealth, collect money, and take up a new post
Based on the above contents of the old almanac, we can know that today’s Nacai is in line with the almanac, so Father’s Day 2019 is suitable for engagement!

What does Nacai mean in the lunar calendar?

Marriage customs
Nacai refers to the ancient Han marriage customs, which is the first of the "Six Rites". It means that when a man wants to marry a woman, his family sends a matchmaker to the woman's family to propose marriage and give gifts to propose marriage. If the girl is interested, the boy will send a matchmaker to formally propose to the girl's family and bring certain gifts, so it is called "Nacai". In today's terms, "Nacai" refers to the engagement, gift giving, and then discussing the wedding date. Therefore, the Yi Na Cai day in the lunar calendar refers to the day that is suitable for concluding a marriage ceremony.
Ancient records
1. "The Rites of Rites: Marriage Ceremony for Gentlemen": "Marriage ceremony: Send the bride price, use wild geese." Jia Gongyan's commentary: "Nacai means 'Na' because it is the first time to choose a bride and the bride's family may not agree, so it is 'Na'."
2. "Han Shu Pingdi Ji" records: "In the spring of the third year (Yuanshi), the emperor ordered officials to marry the daughter of Anhan Gong Mang for the emperor."

About matters after the marriage

1. After "Nacai" comes "Wenming", in which the matchmaker asks the woman's name, age and "horoscope", and uses divination and fortune-telling to see whether the man and woman will conflict with each other, and whether there are other reasons why they are not suitable for getting married. "Wenming" is also called "Guo Xiaotie" or "matching the horoscopes".
2. After "asking for the name" comes "taking the auspicious sign". The boy's parents give their son's birth date and time to the matchmaker to bring to the girl's side. This is called "passing the big tie" or "exchanging the Luan book", also known as "Tongshu", which actually has a bit of the meaning of engagement.
3. The next "Na Zheng" is the most cost-effective for the girl's family. It roughly means giving a betrothal gift. The betrothal gift has distinct characteristics of each era. In ancient times, it was silk and the like, and later it was gold, silver and other treasures.

Marriage is one of the most important things in life, and the traditional method of matching marriages is still very practical. To predict your marital happiness in advance, please click on the "Excellent Calculation" below. I wish you a happy marriage!

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