China has a history of 5,000 years, and there are many folk customs, but they have all been forgotten. Going back to one's parents' home is also considered a custom. Since it is a custom, there are rules to follow. So, can I go back to my parents’ home during Grain in Ear? Are there any other days when I cannot go back to my parents’ home? May is also known as the Pu month. The most prosperous herb in May is calamus. As calamus is one of the "Four Graces of Flowers and Herbs", it is called the Pu month. If you want to know more about auspicious and inauspicious days in the fifth month of the lunar calendar, please follow Mr. Shuimo's website!Can I go back to my parents’ home during Grain in Ear Festival?Grain in Ear is the ninth solar term among the 24 solar terms, and it is also the time when farmers begin to get busy. There is no custom or taboo among the people that one cannot return to one's parents' home during the Grain in Ear season. If we have to say something, it is probably that the husband's family thinks that going back to my parents' home during the busy farming season will take away the productivity they have added, which is not acceptable. However, with the development of technology, machines have freed our hands, so there is no such thing as going back to our parents' home to take away our productivity. Therefore, you can go back to your mother’s home during Grain in Ear!On which days can I not go back to my parents' home?Many times a married girl cannot return to her parents' home.It is taboo to return to one's parents' home on the beginning of spring, "to look at the lights in her house and weed out the roots of her house", because "Spring" is bigger than "New Year", otherwise one's parents' home will become poor. Lantern Festival: “Seeing the lanterns at your mother’s house will make you poor for the rest of your life”, you can’t go to your mother’s house. Qingming Festival: "Don't be afraid of Qingming Festival, the old man will die" Beginning of Winter: "Don't be afraid of the beginning of winter, the old man will die" Nine-Nine Days (Winter Solstice): "If you don't mind the nine-nine days, two people will die" In addition to the ones I mentioned above, there are also October 1st, Laba Festival, etc., which cannot be celebrated at the mother's home as they are considered unlucky. However, with the accelerated pace of life, many people have actually forgotten this custom. The new era has given new meanings to these days, and everyone regards them as days for reunion with family. |
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