Is today, May 13th of the lunar calendar in 2019, an auspicious day for the funeral and burial of the deceased?

Is today, May 13th of the lunar calendar in 2019, an auspicious day for the funeral and burial of the deceased?
Introduction: It is also necessary to choose an auspicious day for the funeral and burial of the deceased. So is today, May 13th of the lunar calendar in 2019, an auspicious day for the funeral and burial of the deceased? The fifth month of the lunar calendar is midsummer. The lotus breeze delivers fragrance, the bamboo dew drops make clear sounds, and the scenery is different from any other season. Please continue to pay attention to Mr. Shui Mo's website for more content related to the fifth month of the lunar calendar in 2019!
2019 Lunar calendar May 13th lunar month lunar calendar query:
May 13, 2019 (Lunar calendar)
Saturday, June 15, 2019 Gemini (solar calendar)
【Today’s lunar calendar is suitable】
Drilling graves, recruiting sons-in-law, building houses, opening markets, praying for blessings, fasting and offering sacrifices, migrating, seeking wealth and heirs, erecting pillars and beams, planting, receiving livestock, offering sacrifices, traveling, raising livestock, seeking wealth and medical treatment, lifting and consecrating
[Today’s taboos in the almanac]
Setting up the bed, breaking the ground, holding funeral, burial , taking office, getting married, and accepting marriage proposal
Based on the above contents of the old almanac, we can know that the burial [i.e. funeral] on May 13th of the lunar calendar in 2019 is taboo in the almanac, so today is not a suitable day for the funeral of the deceased!

What are the taboos to pay attention to during funerals?

1. Avoid holding funerals on double-year dates. Even days are a bad omen, as people believe that a funeral held on an even day means two deaths. Therefore, funerals must be held on odd days and not on even days.
2. Avoid holding funerals at noon. This taboo custom exists in the Li ethnic group area. If someone dies in a Li family, they are usually buried in the afternoon after dying in the morning, or the next day after dying in the afternoon. The body is kept at home for a very short time, but it is taboo to hold the funeral at noon. It is believed that violating taboos will bring disaster.
3. Avoid shedding tears on the corpse. There is a saying circulating in some areas that if someone in the family dies, one should avoid crying when dressing the deceased to avoid spilling tears on the corpse. It is believed that something will happen and the dead will be awakened.
4. Avoid letting the coffin go out through the door. There is a saying that the Manchus have taboo customs. It is believed that doors are places for people to enter and exit, and it is taboo for the deceased to walk sideways, otherwise it is considered unlucky, so there is a custom of taking out the coffin through the window.
5. Cats are not allowed to appear in front of the coffin. Before the funeral, the body is kept at the wake and cats are not allowed to approach. It is believed that if a cat touches or jumps over the body, it will be as if the deceased suddenly stands up, which means harm to the family.
6. Avoid getting a haircut. If someone dies in the family, family members or men are not allowed to have their hair cut or shave for one month. When an elder passes away, it is usually the younger generation who observe the custom of keeping hair, believing that hair is inherited from parents and that when a loved one passes away, keeping hair is a way to express grief, filial piety and longing. Some areas also believe that getting a haircut is a way to change one's appearance so that the dead cannot recognize them and avoid disasters. There is also another saying that a baby can only have his hair cut 100 days after birth, otherwise the baby may die.
7. No fun is allowed on the anniversary of the death. On the day of a relative's death, it is taboo to do auspicious things, such as drinking and having fun. Needless to say, doing joyful things on the day of the death of a person is considered disrespectful. On the "taboo day" which is also called "taboo food day", the ancients said: "The Book of Rites - Tan Gong Shang" says: "A gentleman has lifelong worries but no one-day troubles, so he should not be happy on the taboo day." This is what everyone follows.

What should we pay attention to when burying the ashes of the deceased?

1. Generally, burial objects are needed <br /> Items such as hemp coins, stone lions, and porcelain! (It is best not to put metal objects) It is recommended not to put metal products. Firstly, these things have radiation, which is not good for the souls of relatives. Secondly, these items are easily oxidized when exposed to moisture, causing rust and blackening! Don't put too many things in the tomb, just choose two or three representative ones!
2. Choose an auspicious date for burial <br /> The most popular burial date across the country is to bury the body within 3 or 7 days after cremation. The selection of this date was based on the idea of ​​"resting in peace", which means that "the sooner you are buried, the sooner you can rest in peace". Recite more scriptures, and recite the Diamond Sutra yourself. (People from different living backgrounds have different needs for auspicious burial days, which depend on local customs)
3. Determine the burial location <br /> It depends on where you are buried. If it is a burial, that is, in your own cemetery, you can place the burial objects at will. If you are buried in a cemetery, you must follow the relevant regulations of the cemetery. Some cemeteries do not allow customers to place funerary objects in the tomb. If there is no requirement, it is recommended that you place some plastic ingots or the like. In the northern region, it is popular to put 4 ingots and 7 copper coins in the tomb. The ingots are divided into two gold and two silver, and are placed in the four corners of the tomb, which means wealth in the four corners. The 7 copper coins are placed at the bottom of the urn with the Big Dipper coins! Or place some small stone lions or jade products, these items will not deteriorate!
4. Placement of the urn <br /> Relatives spread gold cloth on the bottom of the stone cave, with the side with the photo as the front, carefully place the urn facing south or west, spread silver cloth on the urn, then cover it with red cloth, and place jade pendants and copper coins on the top.
5. Warming the grave <br /> Relatives burn a small amount of yellow paper in the grave to warm the grave, so as to prevent the sarcophagus from bursting.
6. Use of moisture-proof box for urns (optional)
If using an urn protection box, relatives should first spread gold cloth on the bottom of the protection box, carefully place the urn, spread silver cloth on the urn, then cover it with red cloth, place jade pendants and copper coins on the top, and put desiccant in the left and right or front and back gaps of the urn. If space in the cave allows, you can also place the deceased's favorite items during his or her lifetime, but avoid placing objects that are contaminated or pose a safety hazard. Use a small amount of yellow paper to warm the hole to prevent the sarcophagus from exploding.
After the relatives confirm the above process, the sealing personnel will be responsible for sealing the cave, and the relatives can also assist in sealing.
Relatives perform a sacrificial ceremony, present flower baskets, bouquets, and fresh fruits on the tombstone, grave, and open space at the grave. You can say some words of comfort to the deceased or read a eulogy to express your condolences. The sacrificial ceremony should be brief.
Friends and relatives who attended the funeral stood in silence and bowed three times, and the memorial ceremony ended.

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