We all know that getting married is a very complicated matter. From ancient times to the present, there are many customs for getting married that you need to know, and some taboos must not be violated. So, is it a good idea to get married on the eleventh day of the first lunar month in 2019? What are the customs for getting married? A year's plan begins in spring, and almost every day in the first month of the lunar calendar is a festival. InkMr.com's special topic on the first month of the lunar calendar in 2019 lists these traditional Chinese festivals and festival customs for you.Is it a good idea to get married on the 11th day of the first lunar month in 2019?Lunar calendar year 2019, January 11th dayAquarius (Friday, February 15, 2019) 【Today’s lunar calendar is suitable】 Breaking ground, drilling, building graves, burying, accepting marriage proposals, getting married, building, taking up a post, seeking offspring, erecting pillars, raising beams, planting, setting up beds, digging wells, building houses, offering sacrifices, catching [Today's taboos in the almanac] Fasting and praying for blessings, releasing water, accepting livestock, opening the market, setting up bonds, collecting money, shipping, moving into a new house, traveling, moving, separating, opening warehouses. Auspicious gods to follow: Bu Shou Zhong, Jing An, Tian En, Yu Tang, Zhi De. Evil spirits to avoid: Gui Ku, Tian Wen, Xiao Hao. By checking the almanac, we found that the [Today’s Auspiciousness] of the day includes [Marriage], so the eleventh day of the first lunar month in 2019 is a good day for marriage; Marriage customs:1. Gift-giving: According to general custom, guests attending a wedding banquet must prepare a small gift, which should be wrapped in red paper or a specially printed double-happiness envelope, with an appropriate amount of gift money inside. The amount of the gift money depends on the guest's financial situation and the closeness of their relationship with the bride and groom, but it is best to choose an even number, with six representing "lu", eight representing "fa" and one hundred representing "growing old together".2. Taking your seat: When attending a wedding, you should take your seat according to the guidance of the host or the host. If no one guides you, you can sit with familiar relatives and friends, but you should be careful not to take the initiative to sit at the "newlyweds' table" or "parents' table." Be polite when taking food and eating at a table 3. Toast: When the bride and groom go to each table to toast and express their gratitude, everyone stands up and raises their glasses, clinks glasses lightly with the newlyweds, and then says "Congratulations". Do not get the bride and groom drunk, do not talk nonsense, and control the time the newlyweds spend toasting at each table to within 3 minutes so that they can finish the banquet successfully and enter the bridal chamber early. At the same time, do not shout loudly at the banquet and drink in moderation to avoid speaking wildly and being rude when drunk. 4. Scattering confetti: At the wedding ceremony, people laugh and scatter colorful confetti into the sky, onto the bride and groom, and also onto the guests who come to congratulate them. This custom originated in Italy. In the Middle Ages, people attending weddings in Italy would throw handfuls of colorful, tiny candies at the newlyweds, wishing them a sweet life. In the 19th century, people changed from throwing candy to throwing confetti. 5. Eating glutinous rice balls: Before leaving for her wedding, the bride has to eat glutinous rice balls with her parents, brothers and girlfriends to express her farewell. The mother feeds her daughter glutinous rice balls and the bride cries. |
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