China attaches great importance to "filial piety", so during major festivals, many people will go back to see their parents during the holidays. So what do you think about the Qingming Festival? Can a married daughter go back to her parents' home during the Qingming Festival? The Fortune Teller website provides you with more content related to the second month of the lunar calendar in 2018. You are welcome to learn more about it!Can a married daughter go back to her parents’ home during Qingming Festival?According to traditional customs, you cannot go back to your parents' home during the Qingming Festival;The custom of "not going back to your parents' home during the Qingming Festival" is, to a certain extent, influenced by traditional patriarchal thinking, which believes that daughters are not family members and that "a married daughter is like spilled water". Influenced by the old concept of "male superiority and female inferiority", daughters cannot return to their parents' home during the Qingming Festival, nor can they worship their ancestors at their parents' home. In many places, especially in rural areas, there is a custom that people cannot return to their parents' home during the Qingming Festival. It is believed that people in rural areas attach great importance to Qingming Festival. Every household goes to the graves to worship their ancestors, but married girls do not return to their parents' home to visit the graves. People in rural areas believe that a girl belongs to someone else. If the family has a son, the girl’s family members will not want her to return to her parents’ home to visit the grave, for fear that others will say that there is no one in her mother’s house. Only if the family has no son can a girl return to her parents’ home to visit the grave. Only the names of sons and daughters-in-law can be engraved on the ancestor's tombstone. The daughter's name is generally not engraved on the tombstone of her natal ancestors. Who is not suitable for tomb sweeping during Qingming Festival?Pregnant women <br /> From a folk custom perspective, it is not appropriate for unborn children to see these dead people, as this can easily lead to the death of the child. If a pregnant woman must go, she has to wrap her belly with red cloth.Young children <br /> There is a saying that children under 7 years old are not suitable, but in fact, from the perspective of numerology, 3 years old is even less suitable, because whether from Chinese religion or foreign past life and present life theory, it is mentioned that children under 3 years old are most likely to see another world. From a scientific point of view, children under the age of 3 are difficult to bring along due to various conditions at the tomb-sweeping site. Going out to a relatively polluted area can also easily make children sick. In other words, it is not recommended to bring them there, and breastfeeding mothers should not bring their infants and young children there. People with dark foreheads or dark blue eye sockets <br /> People with dark foreheads and dark blue eye sockets are in a very unlucky period. Tomb sweeping is to worship ancestors. Most of the tombs are not in a very independent place, but have to pass by many other tombs. It is even more inappropriate to travel through places where negative energy is concentrated. |
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