Can I go back to my parents’ home for the New Year’s Eve in 2022? Can I have dinner there?
The Little New Year is coming, do you want to know more details? “La means connection, the new and the old are connected, so grand sacrifices are held to reward merits.” The twelfth month of the lunar calendar was a month for sacrifices in ancient times. Come to Shuimoxiansheng.com to learn more about the twelfth month of the lunar calendar in 2021.Can I go back to my parents’ home during the Little New Year in 2022?Married women are not allowed to return to their parents’ home to celebrate the New Year’s Eve, nor can they have meals at their parents’ home.In the past, people believed that a married daughter became a public servant, so it was not appropriate for her to return to her parents' home on important holidays such as the Little New Year and the Spring Festival. During the Chinese New Year (from the 23rd day of the 12th lunar month to the 15th day of the 1st lunar month), if a married woman wants to go back to her parents' home, it is best for her to bring her husband back on the 2nd and 11th days of the 1st lunar month. Of course, many people nowadays are not so particular, so if both your parents-in-law and your parents-in-law don’t mind, you can still go back as long as you tell them in advance. However, if the public family needs people for the Kitchen God worship, it’s better to stay. What are the festivals when it is not appropriate to go back to your mother’s home?1. Beginning of SpringThere is a saying that "if you go back to your parents' home at the beginning of spring, your parents will suffer from poverty", so if you go back to your parents' home at the beginning of spring, her family will be unhappy. 2. Winter Solstice It is said that going back to one’s parents’ home on the Winter Solstice is bad for one’s father-in-law, so one has to stay at one’s husband’s home on the Winter Solstice and cannot rashly go back to one’s parents’ home, otherwise it will be bad for one’s father-in-law. 3. Laba People believe that going back to your mother's home on Laba Day will bring bad luck to your mother-in-law. There is also a saying that "If you don't eat rice from your mother's home on Laba Day, your ancestors will not be able to pay it back." Moreover, since the beginning of the twelfth lunar month, the first taboo day is Laba. 4. Spring Festival "Fire on New Year's Eve and lanterns on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month" means that a married daughter can go home and have a reunion dinner with her parents, but she cannot spend New Year's Eve at her parents' home, as this will affect her parents' family's fortune. 5. March 3 According to the customs of many ethnic minorities, the third day of March is considered an "evil day". March 3rd is also one of China’s ghost festivals. Married women cannot go out casually on this day, let alone return to their parents’ home. 6. Qingming Festival You can't go back to your parents' home during the Qingming Festival. It is said that this is because Qingming Festival is a very important festival for worshipping ancestors, and every household has to visit the graves to worship their ancestors. However, a daughter who becomes a nun is like spilled water, so a married daughter cannot go back to her parents' home to visit the graves. 7. Mid-Autumn Festival You cannot go back to your parents' home during the Mid-Autumn Festival because it is a day for family reunion. According to traditional concepts, a married daughter belongs to another family, so she must go back to her husband's home to celebrate the Mid-Autumn Festival, which implies perfection and good luck. Do you want to know your own Bazi? Want to figure out where your golden marriage is? Click on the [Premium Calculation] below to calculate your horoscope and fortune! |
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