Can Xiaoman go back to her parents’ home in 2021? During which solar terms is it not appropriate to visit your parents’ home?

Can Xiaoman go back to her parents’ home in 2021? During which solar terms is it not appropriate to visit your parents’ home?
After the Grain Full solar term, the wheat begins to mature. Grain Full is approaching. Do you want to know more about the Grain Full solar term in 2021? April in the lunar calendar is a month full of hope and vitality. If you want to know how good or bad April will be, please pay attention to Mr. Shui Mo’s special feature on April in the lunar calendar in 2021.

Can Xiaoman go back to her parents’ home in 2021?

The 2021 Grain Full Moon Festival falls on the 10th day of the fourth month of the lunar calendar ; the Gregorian calendar falls on May 21, 2021, Friday, which is the day of the Pig Evil. The Old Almanac recommends: [Do not use the day for major events related to death] Block the acupoints and form a net . The Old Almanac recommends: [Do not use the day for major events related to death] Do not take other things.
According to the lunar calendar of Grain Full in 2021, it is not suitable to go back to your mother's home on this day, because Grain Full is an unlucky day, the " day of death ", so everything is not suitable.
However, according to the traditional customs of Xiaoman, there is no taboo against returning to one's parents' home on this day, so one can return to one's parents' home on this day.

During which solar terms is it not appropriate to visit your parents’ home?

Among the solar terms, it is not suitable to go back to your mother's home during the Beginning of Spring and the Winter Solstice.
Going back to one's parents' home at the beginning of spring is said to impoverish the father-in-law's family; and going back to one's parents' home at the winter solstice is said to cause the death of one's parents-in-law. These are both extreme ways of reflecting the folk taboo that married women cannot go back to their parents' home during these two solar terms.
In ancient times, the Beginning of Spring was the beginning of the year, and the Winter Solstice was the harvest season, so these two solar terms were very important to people in the past. Ancient China was an agricultural society. The Beginning of Spring and the Winter Solstice represented farming and harvesting respectively, so married women needed to stay in their husband's family and work together. Once married, they belonged to their husband's family and could not go back to their parents' home to help. Moreover, if a woman went back to her parents' home, she would take away the productivity of her husband's family. Therefore, married women were forbidden to go back to their parents' home during these two solar terms in the past.
In addition, it is not advisable to go back to your mother's home during the Spring Festival, Lantern Festival, Dragon Head-raising Festival (February 2), Qingming Festival, Dragon Boat Festival, Half Year Festival (June 1), Zhongyuan Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival and Double Ninth Festival.

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