Is it a good idea to get married on the Little New Year’s Day in 2021? Things to note when getting married in the early Chinese New Year

Is it a good idea to get married on the Little New Year’s Day in 2021? Things to note when getting married in the early Chinese New Year
The pros and cons of getting married at different times are also different. So, let’s take a look at whether it is a good idea to get married on the Little New Year’s Day in 2021? Introduction to things to note when getting married. The twelfth month of the lunar calendar is the month when the year changes and we must worship our ancestors and gods. Follow Mr. Shui Mo to learn more about the twelfth month of the lunar calendar in 2020.

Is it a good idea to get married on the Little New Year’s Day in 2021?

The dates for the 2021 Little New Year are:
Lunar calendar: December 23, 2020 Gregorian calendar: February 4, 2021, Thursday, Aquarius
【Today’s lunar calendar is suitable】
[Do not use it for important matters when the sun is inauspicious or the moon is inauspicious]

Repairing graves, fasting and offering sacrifices, accepting a job, seeking an heir, planting and resolving disputes, seeking medical treatment, breaking down the house to build a stove, taking medicine, sailing, recruiting a son-in-law, signing a contract. Auspicious gods to follow: Tian'en, Puhu, Tiangui, Shagong. Evil gods to avoid: Yuepo, Dahao, Siji, Jiukong, Chushuilong, Xuanwu, Jujiang, Liubucheng, Shenge. From the above [What is suitable for today's almanac], it can be seen that it is not recommended to get married on that day because of the influence of [Do not use for important events when the day is broken and the month is broken].

Introduction to matters needing attention in marriage

1. You must cry loudly on the wedding day.
This means that when the bride leaves her parents' home, she must cry loudly, and the louder she cries, the better. There is a folk saying that crying brings wealth, and only by crying can there be wealth.
2. The bride must not wear old shoes on the wedding day
The clothes and shoes worn on the wedding day must be new. According to folk belief, old shoes represent being abandoned or remarried, which is considered unlucky.
3. You have to go back to your parents’ home three days after the wedding.
On the third day after their wedding, the newlyweds must return to their parents’ home. And there is another important thing about returning to your parents' home, which is that you cannot stay overnight at your parents' home, you must go back on the same day. If they can't make it back in time, the bride and groom will have to sleep separately.

Do we have to worship the Kitchen God during the Little New Year?

Yes, there is a custom of worshiping the kitchen god during the Little New Year.
The Little New Year is a festival for the Han people to worship the Kitchen God. According to Han folk legend, on this day the Kitchen God will ascend to heaven to report the family's merits and demerits to the Jade Emperor, and saying goodbye to the Kitchen God is to see him off. Therefore, people usually treat this household god with piety and respect. Sending away the Kitchen God embodies the Han working people’s yearning for a happy life, and they pray to the gods to bless the family with peace, good fortune, and safety every year in the new year.

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