Recommended auspicious days for weddings and banquets in May of the lunar calendar in 2020, the Year of the Rat!

Recommended auspicious days for weddings and banquets in May of the lunar calendar in 2020, the Year of the Rat!
Introduction: Holding a wedding banquet is also an important matter, because marriage is one of the important events in life, so choosing an auspicious day for marriage is very important. Then, we recommend a good day for wedding banquets in May of the lunar calendar in 2020, the Year of the Rat! Let’s follow the editor of Shuimoxiansheng.com to learn more about it!

Recommended auspicious days for weddings and banquets in May of the lunar calendar in 2020, the Year of the Rat!

There are 18 auspicious days for marriage in May of the lunar calendar in 2020:
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What are the taboos to pay attention to when getting married?

1. The bride’s clothes should not have pockets, so as not to take away the wealth from her parents’ home.
2. Three days after the wedding, the newlyweds must return to their husband’s home before sunset and cannot stay overnight. If there are special reasons that prevent them from going home, the couple should sleep separately to prevent the bride's bloodiness during her honeymoon from offending her family and bringing bad luck to them.
3. Pregnant women and people in mourning are not allowed to witness the newlyweds leaving the house or moving in, and they are not allowed to touch the newlyweds’ clothes or any items in the new house.
4. When the groom goes to the bride's house to pick up the bride, the bride may leave her parents' home or cry for joy out of excessive excitement. This is very common and not a problem (it is even a good thing, as leaving "water head" behind will bring good luck to the bride's family). But after you marry into the man’s family, you are not allowed to cry.
5. The bride should avoid wearing "old shoes" on the wedding day. All wedding shoes, embroidered shoes and evening shoes should be new. If you are worried that the new shoes will be hard and uncomfortable, you should choose higher quality soft leather, size them a little looser and add thick pads. Also, you should not wear heels that are too high.
6. You can wear some mascots or lucky charms. But don't buy randomly.
7. The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, as this would be considered embarrassing for her husband.
8. When the bride enters the groom's house, she should avoid stepping on the threshold and should step over it.

Ancient Chinese wedding customs - listening to the room

During the Han Dynasty, people would use blue cloth curtains to build tents to hold wedding ceremonies. The chapter "Falsehood and Cunning" in "A New Account of Tales of the World" records: "When Wei Wu was young, he and Yuan Shao were good friends and became knights-errant. One day, he watched a wedding and sneaked into the garden of the host. At night, he shouted, "There is a thief!" Everyone in the bridal chamber came out to watch. Wei Wu then entered, drew his sword and robbed the bride." This custom of getting married in a bridal chamber continued until the Qing Dynasty and was mentioned many times in Pu Songling's "Strange Stories from a Chinese Studio."
According to historical records, during the Han Dynasty, there was already a custom of congratulating the bride and groom on the wedding night. According to the "Book of Han·Annals of Emperor Xuan", "In the second year of Wufeng, the imperial edict said: 'The ceremony of marriage is the most important of human relations. The gathering of wine and food is the place to perform rituals and music.' Nowadays, some officials in counties and states have arbitrarily made harsh prohibitions, prohibiting people from getting married and not allowing them to prepare wine and food to congratulate each other. This abolishes the rituals of the village and makes the people have no joy. This is not the way to guide the people." The purpose of this edict of Emperor Xuan of Han was to encourage the people to hold banquets to celebrate at their weddings.
According to the "Book of Han·Biography of Yuan Kui's Wife", after Yuan Kui and his wife entered the bridal chamber, the couple whispered: "Kuai said again: 'My brother got married before my brother, and the world laughs at him. Can I get married before my sister gets married?' She replied: 'My sister is of high character and has not met a good match. It's not like she is mean and just wants to be content.' He asked again: 'The Lord of Nanjun has studied the profound principles of Taoism and is the master of poetry, but he always takes money as a loss in his position. Why is that?' She replied: 'Confucius was a great sage, but he was not immune to the criticism of Wu Shu; Zilu was a great virtuous man, but he was still criticized by Bo Liao. It is natural that my master has this.' Kui was silent and could not be persuaded. Those who listened outside the tent were ashamed."

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