Marriage is a major event in life and is very meaningful for both boys and girls. Can you get married on the day of the Beginning of Winter? What are the customs and taboos of marriage? In the tenth month of the lunar calendar, the weather starts to get cold, and winter has already arrived. Pay attention to Mr. Shui Mo’s special feature on October of the lunar calendar in 2019, and enjoy this beautiful October together.Is it possible to get married on the day of the Beginning of Winter?——What is the saying about the Beginning of Winter solar term?The explanation of "winter" in "Collected Explanations of the 72 Seasonal Changes" is: "Winter means the end, and all things are stored", which means that all autumn crops have been harvested and dried, stored in warehouses, and animals have also hidden themselves away to prepare for hibernation. It seems that the Beginning of Winter not only represents the coming of winter. To be more complete, the Beginning of Winter means the beginning of winter, when all things are stored away to avoid the cold. ——Is the Beginning of Winter a suitable date for getting married? If we analyze based on the principle of choosing an auspicious day for marriage, then it is impossible to judge simply by the Beginning of Winter. It depends on the specific date and the birth dates of the newlyweds . So from the perspective of the basic meaning of the solar terms, we can analyze: you can get married on the Beginning of Winter. Marriage customs and taboos——Because marriage is a very important matter, there are many things to pay attention to.Taboo: No pockets on the bridal gown ——If the bride’s dress has pockets, it will easily take away the fortune from her family, so generally speaking, brides’ dresses don’t have pockets. Taboo 2: Do not fan ——Because the “fan” in Chinese is a homonym of “scatter”, which means to break up, it is naturally unlucky for a wedding of couples, so the bride is not allowed to fan herself at the wedding. Taboos: 3: You must cry ——The harder the bride cries, the richer she will be. Taboo 4: Sisters-in-law cannot be sent out ——Because “gu” is the homonym of “gu” (lonely) and “sao” (sao) is the homonym of “sao” (sweep), these two words are unlucky for the newlyweds. Taboos and precautions (5): Crossing the threshold - The bride must be careful when entering her husband's house and not step over the threshold; Taboos and precautions [6]: Wedding bed ——It is true that the wedding bed is used for sleeping, but the newlyweds cannot lie directly on the bed before going to bed on the wedding day, as this is considered unlucky. Two poems on the beginning of winter 《1》《Thoughts on Chrysanthemums after Frost on the Day Before Beginning of Winter》 by Qian Shi of the Song Dynasty Last night the frost chilled my quilt, and the steps were covered with red leaves. The west wind has swept away all the gardens, only the yellow flowers remain worthy of autumn. "2" Purple Gold Frost "Beginning of Winter" The lotus pond is full of withered water, and the west wind gradually turns into the north wind. The boxwood is particularly stubborn, while the white birch is gentle and half sparse. The cold frost on the door can wake your bones, and the fading light by the window is good for reading. I plan to chant poems about plum blossoms and snow in the coldest days of winter, and even borrow my own small stove. |
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