Engagement is the establishment of a relationship before marriage. Compared with marriage, engagement is not as solemn, and many places only invite close people to witness it. How about getting engaged on the Beginning of Winter? Here are seven things you should pay attention to when getting engaged! Good things always happen in winter, because people who have worked hard for a year have finally stored up a rich harvest and welcomed the arrival of winter's happy events. Shuimoxiansheng.com will tell you about every day of the tenth month of the lunar calendar in 2019.How about getting engaged on the beginning of winter?——Is the beginning of winter a good time to get engaged?Beginning of Winter: November 6 to November 8 in the Gregorian calendar Explanation of the Beginning of Winter: Beginning of Winter is one of the 24 solar terms. It occurs when the Big Dipper points to the northwest and the sun's ecliptic longitude is 225°. It falls between November 7-8 in the Gregorian calendar. Beginning of Winter is a seasonal solar term, which means winter begins from now on. After the beginning of winter, the daylight hours will continue to shorten and the altitude of the sun at noon will continue to decrease. In ancient society, the Beginning of Winter was one of the “Four Seasons and Eight Festivals” among the people, and people generally held sacrificial activities. ——From the perspective of solar terms and the meaning of the day: you can get engaged on the day of Beginning of Winter, but you still need to analyze the lunar calendar based on the specific year and day. Seven things to note when getting engaged!"1" Set an auspicious date: communicate and coordinate with both parents in advance, choose a time that is convenient for both parties to meet, and arrive on time."Two" Etiquette should be in place: Whether during a conversation or at a table, both men and women should promptly refill tea, water, wine and serve food, giving the other party's parents a good impression of being well-educated and polite. 《3》 Place of Engagement: Generally, the man, together with his parents (relatives), brings gifts such as cakes, fruits, cigarettes, and alcohol to visit the woman's parents in person to meet his future in-laws. The preferred venue for engagement is usually the woman's home as a sign of respect. 《4》 Number of people at the engagement party: When getting engaged, the woman’s family will invite relatives, friends and relatives to accompany the party. This is to congratulate the newlyweds and congratulate both parties on becoming "relatives". Generally, the guests who will attend the banquet should be determined before the engagement so that the budget can be determined, and hotel reservations or food and drinks can be prepared in advance. 《Five》Gift preparation: When getting engaged, the man will naturally bring gifts to show respect and closeness. Of course, gifts are not about luxury but about expressing emotions. Generally speaking, cigarettes, alcohol, fruits, tea, cakes, etc. can be presented as gifts. You can also prepare one or two local specialties or things that your future "relatives" like. 《Six》 Understand the preferences of both sets of parents: Understand the living habits of both sets of parents, such as etiquette, food preferences, taboos, etc. Especially the man should pay more attention to this point and understand the dietary preferences and taboos of his future parents-in-law so as to give advice to his own parents. The gifts he brings should be in line with the tastes of the woman's parents. "Seven" Try to avoid the discussion when parents are discussing the marriage: When the parents of both parties start discussing the marriage, the man and woman can avoid the discussion appropriately, interrupt less, and try to respect their parents' opinions; if they have objections, they should discuss it with their parents and not get angry; if the parents of both parties cannot reach an agreement on certain issues, or even have a quarrel, then the man and woman should act as "mediators" and not let the situation escalate. Beginning of Winter - Temperature drops significantly <br /> As the cold air intensifies, the temperature drops faster. People are accustomed to the cooling in the north. Starting from late October, heating was provided, and people now had a place to escape the cold. For people in the middle and lower reaches of the Yangtze River, which is in the "little spring" in late autumn, the average temperature is generally 12℃ to 15℃. The drizzle has ended. If a strong cold front moves south quickly, the temperature may drop by 8-10℃ or even more in less than a day. But after the strong wind, the sun shines, the cold air mass quickly changes, and the temperature rises quickly. The rise in temperature and the accumulation of heat will cause the next round of cold air to bring a significant drop in temperature. At this time, the pleasant late autumn weather is coming to an end, and the obvious drop in temperature has caused the area to enter the first frost period, which is also the best period for viewing red leaves, and winter will gradually begin at the end of November. |
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