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The lunar calendar for the Grain Full solar term on May 21, 2019:

The Selection of Auspicious Dates for Weddings in China

1. Select leap year and leap month
Since ancient times, Chinese people have been very particular and concerned about the choice of wedding days. The elders in particular are very particular about the concepts of "leap month" and "leap year", and believe that the best time to choose a wedding date is in a year with a leap month.
2. Avoid the three, seven, and nine
Auspicious dates for marriage should avoid the third, seventh and ninth months of the lunar calendar, as these three months are not suitable for holding weddings because they coincide with the "Tomb-Sweeping Day", "Yulan Festival" and "Chonggong Festival" respectively, which are all traditional "ghost months". The eighth month of the lunar calendar is considered the most suitable month for weddings, as it is the month of Mid-Autumn Festival when the moon is full at the beginning of the month. Some people believe that the eighth month represents the reunion of the couple, so it is considered a relatively auspicious month.
3. Avoid the Three-Niang Evil
According to legend, Yuexia Laoren refused to tie the red thread for Sanniang, so Sanniang never got married. Out of revenge, she liked to go against Yuexia Laoren for three years and deliberately ruined the happy events of newlyweds. The third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are the so-called Sanniangsha days, and it is not suitable for marriage.
4. How to choose a wedding date
The principle of choosing a date for marriage is to base it on the bride's date of birth, with reference to the birth dates of the groom and others. As the saying goes, "sons are determined by the year of their birth, and girls are determined by the year of their marriage." Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the marriage and even divorce; otherwise, it will be very auspicious.

What are the taboos to pay attention to when getting married?

1. The bride’s clothes should not have pockets, so as not to take away the wealth from her parents’ home.
2. Three days after the wedding, the newlyweds must return to their husband’s home before sunset and cannot stay overnight. If there are special reasons that prevent them from going home, the couple should sleep separately to prevent the bride's bloodiness during her honeymoon from offending her family and bringing bad luck to them.
3. Pregnant women and people in mourning are not allowed to witness the newlyweds leaving the house or moving in, and they are not allowed to touch the newlyweds’ clothes or any items in the new house.
4. When the groom goes to the bride's house to pick up the bride, the bride may leave her parents' home or cry for joy out of excessive excitement. This is very common and not a problem (it is even a good thing, as leaving "water head" behind will bring good luck to the bride's family). But after you marry into the man’s family, you are not allowed to cry.
5. The bride should avoid wearing "old shoes" on the wedding day. All wedding shoes, embroidered shoes and evening shoes should be new. If you are worried that the new shoes will be hard and uncomfortable, you should choose higher quality soft leather, size them a little looser and add thick pads. Also, you should not wear heels that are too high.
6. You can wear some mascots or lucky charms. But don't buy randomly.
7. The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, as this would be considered embarrassing for her husband.
8. When the bride enters the groom's house, she should avoid stepping on the threshold and should step over it.

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