Many parents want to know whether children can visit graves during the Qingming Festival. What are the taboos when visiting graves during the Qingming Festival? Mr. Shui Mo website has carefully compiled detailed information about the third month of the lunar calendar in 2019. If you want to know about the auspicious and inauspicious days in the third month of the lunar calendar, please come to Mr. Shui Mo website!Can children visit graves during Qingming Festival?Children under the age of 7 are forbidden to visit graves, as it is said that children's eyes are blurry and they can see bad things. In addition, the environment of the cemetery is poor, children are prone to illness and are more easily frightened. Children are prone to crying and making noises, which can easily frighten the ancestors, and is also disrespectful to the deceased around the cemetery.The custom in some places is that families with newborn babies must take the new daughter-in-law and the mother who just gave birth to a child and their child to visit the graves together during the Qingming Festival of that year. First of all, it means acknowledging one's ancestry, and secondly, it is also to comfort the ancestors: the family has grown and there are new members! If such a family goes to the grave to sweep the tomb, they should set off firecrackers, and in the curling smoke of the firecrackers, the newlyweds should kowtow and pay their respects in front of the grave, and the children should be held by the adults while paying their respects, saying "Dad (Mom), your daughter-in-law (granddaughter-in-law) pays her respects to you!" Of course, how to address them will vary according to the identity and seniority of the ancestors. What are the taboos when visiting graves during Qingming Festival?1. Avoid making loud noises, laughing, cursing, or talking loudly when visiting graves , as these are disrespectful to the ancestors. Control your emotions and attitude so as not to disturb or offend the ghosts.2. Avoid running, jumping and playing when visiting graves . Remain solemn and do not step over the graves and offerings, as this will disturb nearby spirits. 3. Avoid commenting on ancestors when visiting graves. You cannot step on other people’s graves or comment on the design of cemeteries. This will be regarded as disrespectful to the ancestors and may cause trouble. 4. Avoid taking photos at the cemetery when visiting the graves of your ancestors. The most taboo is to take photos of other graves in the camera. It will cause your fortune to decline and you will fail in all aspects. 5. When visiting graves, avoid wearing brightly colored clothes and should wear plain clothes. Especially avoid wearing bright red clothes or red accessories. 6. Avoid burning weeds when visiting graves. When visiting graves for the ancestors, you need to clear the weeds in the cemetery, add loose soil, and tidy up the surrounding environment. Avoid burning the grass around the cemetery for the sake of saving trouble. As the saying goes, "A good fate is not as good as good luck." A person's destiny is already determined, and the only thing that can be controlled is his or her "luck." Unexpected changes in the world may happen at any time, so use Mr. Shui Mo's [Premium Calculation] function to learn more about your fortune in 2019! |
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