Introduction: According to the tradition of our country, engagement and marriage need to be arranged on auspicious days. So which day in the twelfth lunar month of 2018 is suitable for marriage and engagement? What are the requirements for engagement in the twelfth lunar month? Shui Mo Xiansheng website has carefully compiled detailed information about the twelfth month of the lunar calendar in 2018. If you want to know about the auspiciousness and inauspiciousness of the twelfth month of the lunar calendar, please come to Shui Mo Xiansheng website!Which day in December of 2018 is suitable for marriage or engagement?List of auspicious days for marriage in December 2018: : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : :Based on the above content, we can see that there are a total of 10 good days in the twelfth lunar month of 2018 that are suitable for getting married! What are the requirements for engagement?(1) Avoid using unlucky names in betrothal giftsIn the old days, after the man’s family selected an auspicious date, they would bring gift money and gifts to the woman’s family 15 to 20 days before the wedding. Generally, this ceremony is very grand, because the amount of the gift the man gives to the woman not only reflects how much he values the woman, but also reflects the financial status of his family. Each item in the betrothal gift should have an auspicious name. For example, during the Sui and Tang dynasties, there were nine fixed betrothal gifts, including cassia bark, Jiahe, donkey-hide gelatin, cattail leaf, red reed, double stones, cotton wool, longevity thread, dry lacquer, etc. Each item has the meaning of blessing the couple's love to last forever. (2) Avoid giving betrothal gifts in odd numbers The number should also be even rather than odd, because even numbers are a symbol of good luck and there is an old saying among the people that "good things come in pairs". The odd number is an unlucky symbol and is therefore taboo. (3) Avoid including shoes in the betrothal gift In some places, it is taboo to include shoes in the betrothal gift because people are afraid that the woman will wear the shoes and run away. (4) Avoid putting meat filling in the betrothal gift box In some places, it is taboo to put meat filling in the gift box of betrothal gifts. It is said that if meat filling is put in the gift box, the new bride will be slow in temper and will be slow in doing things after she gets married. (5) Avoid the woman returning the empty gift box to the man After the betrothal gifts are delivered to the woman's family, they are forbidden to return the empty gift box to the man. Generally, part of the food will be returned to the man's home, or the clothes prepared by the woman for the man will be placed in a gift box for the man to take back. According to the custom in the Central Plains, the man must bring a rooster when sending a betrothal gift, which means good luck. When the woman receives the betrothal gift, she does not keep the rooster and takes back a hen. The hen must be alive, and white is not recommended, as it is unlucky to have a white hen with other hens. Is it possible to get married or engaged in the twelfth lunar month?You can get married in the twelfth lunar month, but you cannot get engaged.Marriages are seldom held in the first month of the lunar calendar, and engagements are seldom held in the twelfth month, because marrying a daughter-in-law in the first month will bring trouble to the parents-in-law, while getting engaged in the twelfth month will bring misfortune to the husband's family. Hence, there is a proverb: "Don't marry in the first month, and don't get engaged in the twelfth month." But no matter when you get married, you must choose a good day. Moreover, a few days before choosing a good day, the man's family must ask a matchmaker to go to the woman's family to inquire about the girl's "small life". That is, the menstrual period falls in the first or second half of the month in order to choose an auspicious day. It is said that if the bride's menstruation happens to come during the wedding, there is a saying that "a red horse going to bed will lead to the ruin of the family and the death of people", so people take it very seriously. If the groom is young, before he enters the bridal chamber, his parents must warn him not to exceed the festival, for fear that the bride will get pregnant on the wedding night. The child born will be called "Maimenzi", which is very unlucky. Therefore, "choosing a date" is very important. 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