What does it mean not to get married in the first month and not to get engaged in the twelfth month? What is the saying
I believe many people have heard of the saying "Don't get married in the first month and don't get engaged in the twelfth month". What does this mean? What is the explanation? The twelfth month of the lunar calendar is the end of the year, also known as the twelfth month. So what are the things to pay attention to in the twelfth month? Come to Shuimoxiansheng.com’s special topic on the twelfth month of the lunar calendar in 2018 to learn more!What does “Don’t get married in the first month and don’t get engaged in the twelfth month” mean?"Don't get married in the first month of the year and don't get engaged in the twelfth month" means that you can't get married in the first month of the year and you can't get engaged in the twelfth month. These are some customs and rules passed down from ancient people.What does "Don't get married in the first month and don't get engaged in the twelfth month" mean?You can’t get married in the first month of the lunar calendar, and you can’t get engaged in the twelfth month of the lunar calendar, otherwise the couple cannot live together until old age. Marriages are seldom held in the first month of the lunar calendar, and engagements are seldom held in the twelfth month, because marrying a daughter-in-law in the first month will bring trouble to the parents-in-law, while getting engaged in the twelfth month will bring misfortune to the husband's family. Hence, there is a proverb: "Don't marry in the first month, and don't get engaged in the twelfth month." But no matter when you get married, you must choose a good day. Moreover, a few days before choosing a good day, the man's family must ask a matchmaker to go to the woman's family to inquire about the girl's "small life". That is, the menstrual period falls in the first or second half of the month in order to choose an auspicious day. It is said that if the bride's menstruation happens to come during the wedding, there is a saying that "a red horse going to bed will lead to the ruin of the family and the death of people", so people take it very seriously. If the groom is young, before he enters the bridal chamber, his parents must warn him not to exceed the festival, for fear that the bride will get pregnant on the wedding night. The child born will be called "Maimenzi", which is very unlucky. Therefore, "choosing a date" is very important.What should you pay attention to on an auspicious engagement day?1. Respect the parents of both parties; the elders are very concerned about things like choosing an engagement date. You must respect both sets of parents and discuss the decision with them. 2. Consider the actual situation of both families. When choosing a wedding date, you need to consider whether the elderly on both sides have time to attend and can witness the festive and harmonious scene. 3. Consider the physical condition of both parties. If one party is temporarily feeling unwell or is sick, it is best not to rush into arranging the marriage, but to seek medical treatment in time and then discuss the matter after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of your new life and easily aggravate your physical condition. When choosing an engagement or wedding date, the man should pay special attention to listening to the woman's opinion. |
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