Is it okay to get married on New Year’s Eve? What are the taboos in marriage?
Many people may only have one marriage in their lifetime, so everyone hopes to leave good memories for themselves, and every aspect is very particular. So is it a good idea to get married on New Year’s Eve? The Fortune Teller website has carefully prepared relevant topics for the 2018 Chinese New Year and New Year’s Eve. Everything you want to know is included. Come and have a look!Is it okay to get married on New Year’s Eve?Some places insist on not getting married in the first month of the lunar yearFirst, it’s unlucky. In ancient times, there was a saying that "raising one's head in red" meant that if a man and a woman got married in the first month of the lunar calendar, it would be the Tai Sui of the lunar calendar that would suppress their heads and be unfavorable to their children and grandchildren. Therefore, few couples got married in the first month of the lunar calendar. Second, it’s not festive. The first month of the lunar calendar is the time for "ghost marriages", because the first month of the lunar calendar is the same as the holiday in the underworld, and all the underworld things can come to the world of the living. Therefore, when you see a wedding in the wilderness, do not stop to watch, but observe if there are people around. If many people are watching, it means it is a wedding in the world of the living. If there is no one around and you are the only one, or if the people around you do not react when they see the wedding procession, you'd better turn around and run, because there is a high probability that they are here to pick you up. Tell me if it’s scary or not. Third, it is not conducive to the happiness and unity of the family. You can’t get married in the first month of the lunar calendar, and you can’t get engaged in the twelfth month of the lunar calendar, otherwise the couple cannot live together until old age. Marriages are seldom held in the first month of the lunar calendar, and engagements are seldom held in the twelfth month, because marrying a daughter-in-law in the first month will bring trouble to the parents-in-law, while getting engaged in the twelfth month will bring misfortune to the husband's family. Hence, there is a proverb: "Don't marry in the first month, and don't get engaged in the twelfth month." But no matter when you get married, you must choose a good day. Moreover, a few days before choosing a good day, the man's family must ask a matchmaker to go to the woman's family to inquire about the girl's "small life". That is, the menstrual period falls in the first or second half of the month in order to choose an auspicious day. It is said that if the bride's menstruation happens to come during the wedding, there is a saying that "a red horse going to bed will lead to the ruin of the family and the death of people", so people take it very seriously. If the groom is young, before he enters the bridal chamber, his parents must warn him not to exceed the festival, for fear that the bride will get pregnant on the wedding night. The child born will be called "Maimenzi", which is very unlucky. Therefore, "choosing a date" is very important. Fourthly, there is a folk saying that mice get married on the third day of the first lunar month. In addition, Zhong Kui also married his sister to Du Ping on New Year’s Eve. What are the taboos in marriage?Firstly, it is extremely taboo to get married in the ghost month of the seventh lunar month, and also avoid getting married in the sixth lunar month, because it means a half-month wife. When setting up the bed, put it in the right place, and avoid facing the sharp corners of tables, wardrobes or any objects. After the bed is set up until the eve of the wedding night, the groom-to-be must not sleep alone in the new bed, because it implies loneliness after marriage, which is very unlucky. If it is unavoidable, you can find a person with a major zodiac sign (such as the dragon) or an underage boy to sleep with you.Second, during the gift-giving ceremony, the bride must not eat the wedding cakes sent by the groom, because this would eat up her own joy. On the engagement day, no matter how hot the weather is, all guests attending the engagement are not allowed to fan themselves, otherwise it would mean breaking up the couple. The dress the bride wears on the wedding day must not have pockets, lest they take away the fortune from her family. When the bride leaves her family's home, the harder she cries, the better, which means "crying brings wealth, and not crying brings no wealth." Third, on the wedding day, when the bride goes out, her aunts and sisters-in-law must avoid her and cannot see her off. This is because "姑" (gu) and "孤" (gu) have the same pronunciations as "孤" (gu), and "姐" (sao) and "扫" (sao) have the same pronunciations as "扫", both of which are unlucky words. On the way to the wedding, if they encounter another wedding convoy, it is called "喜冲喜" (joy clashes with joy), which will cancel out each other's blessings. Therefore, they must set off firecrackers at each other, or the matchmakers on both sides must exchange flowers to resolve the issue. |
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