How to spend the Spring Festival in the first year of marriage? Should you go back to your husband’s family or your parents’ family first?

How to spend the Spring Festival in the first year of marriage? Should you go back to your husband’s family or your parents’ family first?
Introduction: Newly married friends always have some troubles during the Chinese New Year. Now many couples have only one child, so it becomes a dilemma as to where to spend the Chinese New Year. What gifts should I buy for the New Year? How should we greet each other during Chinese New Year? A lot of problems are troubling me. In this issue, the editor will tell you how to celebrate the Spring Festival in the first year of marriage. Let’s find out together! A year's plan begins with spring, and the Spring Festival is an important traditional festival of ours. Do you want to know more about the Spring Festival? Come and take a look at the Spring Festival special topic carefully prepared by Mr. Shui Mo!

Celebrating the Spring Festival in the First Year of Marriage: Giving Gifts

In the first year after a couple's marriage, in addition to greeting their parents on both sides, many places also have to greet their relatives, send gifts, and give children lucky money. The elders will give red envelopes to the newlyweds who come to pay New Year's greetings. Gifts for parents on both sides: Choose gifts that are easy to display, such as clothes, watches, cigarettes, alcohol, tea, and jewelry. You know, when relatives come to visit during the Spring Festival, they usually say, "Your new clothes are beautiful; Where did you buy this tea? It's really delicious; That watch on your hand is not cheap, isn't it?" At this time, parents will feel proud: My new daughter-in-law (new son-in-law) brought it back. Gifts for relatives may be small in size but the sentiment is great. The choice depends on your financial situation. It is best to get a general idea of ​​your relatives' preferences in advance so that you can choose gifts more specifically and let them know that you have good intentions. If the elders are elderly, you can give them health products and milk powder for the elderly. If the elders are middle-aged, you can give them cigarettes, alcohol, and tea. These are commonly chosen gifts and are a safe choice.

Celebrating the Spring Festival in the first year of marriage: New Year greetings

Newly married couples will always attract extra attention. Although elders like people who speak sweetly, it is common to make more mistakes if you talk too much. The editor suggests that you should first sort out the relationships between relatives with your family members. If there are any estrangements between relatives, try not to mention them. You should also remember what relatives are taboo to hear and not say them out loud. Not only will it make the situation awkward, it will also leave a bad impression on others. The first year of the newly married Spring Festival will be more stressful. You need to be prepared both financially and physically. There is only one year. If you have any confusion, talk to your parents. The most important thing is to have a smooth Spring Festival in the first year of marriage.

Celebrating the Spring Festival in the first year of marriage: Whose family will you go to celebrate the New Year

1. Go back to one family once a year and take turns to celebrate the Spring Festival. Suitable for people: The husband’s family and the wife’s family are in two different places. For two only children, this is the fairest way. Just agree that you will go back to one family to celebrate the Spring Festival once a year, and both parents will be mentally prepared. 2. Two families join together to have New Year’s Eve dinner together. Suitable for people: the husband’s family and the wife’s family are willing to get together. Now many parents go to their children’s homes to celebrate the New Year together. In this way, neither side will feel lost. After eating the New Year’s Eve dinner, they can stay up together and travel together during the Spring Festival. 3. Eat alternately at noon and evening on New Year’s Eve. Suitable for people: The husband’s family and the wife’s family are close to each other, so this way both families are taken care of, which is the most harmonious way. According to traditional customs, people spend New Year’s Eve and the first day of the New Year at their husband’s home, and return to their parents’ home on the second day. However, whether or not to follow traditional customs is a personal choice. At whose home you spend the New Year is actually a reflection of the degree of compatibility between husband and wife. Communicate more with both sets of parents. There is no need to worry too much about this issue, let alone cause quarrels.
Summary: The above article content is some analysis compiled by the editor for newly married readers on how to celebrate the New Year in the first year of marriage. You can refer to it. I hope the editor’s methods can help you solve your problems!

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