The most effective secret to bringing good fortune to a family and the real culprit that destroys it?

Introduction: What is family fortune? Family fortune is a general term for family wealth, emotions, offspring, social status, etc. People who have bad family fortunes will definitely think about how to turn things around, and even more people will think about how to make their family fortunes even better. So, what can be done to be beneficial to family fortunes? This issue of Feng Shui special topic will give you a detailed introduction. Feng Shui is a professional term in Feng Shui. Let us take a look at the knowledge about Feng Shui below.

1. Have harmonious relationships and manage the household well.

Emotional harmony is the foundation. Good family fortune has nothing to do with staying at home and being affectionate every day. But if there is no vitality in the home, then the family fortune is equivalent to having no vitality. Therefore, many people who choose to work far away, leaving their wives and children at home while they work outside, do not have good family fortunes! But if it is a large family with many people, and the wife, children, parents and brothers are there to accompany them, and they live in harmony, are not lonely, are not bullied, and have people who understand them, then it is considered a good family fortune. Of course, it would be best if you could have a smooth work life and enjoy family time at home.

Good housekeeping skills include being filial to the elders, being devoted to your spouse, being united and friendly with your brothers and sisters, and educating your children morally. In Chinese tradition, filial piety comes first among all virtues, because your attitude towards the elderly will have a real impact on your children's attitude towards themselves in the future. Whether it will continue the good or the evil is reflected in the word filial piety. Be devoted to your loved ones, which includes the relationship between rights and obligations. You have the right to receive your loved one's care and love, and you also have the obligation to provide your loved one with care and love. You should change your mindset when you are used to spurring your loved ones, because the effect of spurring is far less than encouragement. Be united and loving to your brothers and sisters, work together, and you will be able to do things with great momentum and not be bullied by outsiders. Educate your children with morality, and educate them with virtues, so that there will be a family tradition. The ancients said, "Morality can be passed down for more than ten generations, farming and reading can be passed down for the second generation, poetry and books can be passed down for the third generation, and wealth can only be passed down for three generations." This profoundly illustrates the importance of moral education.

Managing the household well also includes taking good care of diet and daily life, which is the most basic daily life of a family. Diet does not have to be luxurious or rich, but it must be healthy and well-maintained. Daily life includes reasonable and healthy daily routines, and Feng Shui must be paid attention to when building a house and furnishing it.

2. Keep good thoughts and do good deeds.

In a sunny house there is always spring, and in a family that does good there is plenty of celebration. Among the four good deeds that people believe are the most virtuous, the first is filial piety. Buddha said that offering to one’s parents once is more than offering to one hundred eminent monks. Many people are used to going out to worship Buddha and pray for blessings, but they speak ill of the elderly at home and have evil thoughts. How can the family fortune be good? Second, save lives. As the saying goes, saving a life is better than building a seven-story pagoda. Third, build bridges and roads and support education. Building a bridge can save millions of people, paving a road can benefit tens of thousands of people, and education can benefit future generations, and the merits are immeasurable. Fourth, release animals. Releasing animals is the most meritorious deed promoted by Buddhism, but folk customs are more accustomed to putting people first, so human life comes before other lives. Buddhism claims that all living beings are equal. In fact, releasing animals can cultivate a person's good thoughts and good deeds. In folk customs, releasing animals is often used to help people eliminate disasters, cure diseases and prolong their lives. In fact, it is also one of the common ways to increase blessings. The above four things are what people believe are the four things with the greatest merit. If done well, the family fortune can be blessed and it will be easier for the family to prosper. One thing you need to understand here is that you don't need to be seen doing good deeds, as God will know what you do. There is no need to feel upset because no one knows about the good deeds you have done.

3. Know your duties and responsibilities.

Everyone is born with responsibilities. A person's responsibility is first to live a good life, to be healthy, happy, have aspirations, be positive, and strive to do his or her part well. Next, everyone must know that he is a member of the family and a member of society. Therefore, caring for family members and outsiders is also a responsibility. Knowing the responsibility, one must abandon willfulness, because willfulness is essentially selfishness. A person may do his job well and live a comfortable life, but if he forgets about his family and forgets to give back to society, he will lose his virtue and ruin his family fortune. The greater the ability, the greater the responsibility. We should not seek egalitarianism.

4. Be tolerant and have a broad vision.

We know that the bigger our heart is, the bigger the world can be. Be more tolerant. Not only should you be tolerant of your own mistakes, but you should also be tolerant of the mistakes of others. Being too narrow-minded will ruin a family's fortune. Although Wang Xifeng in Dream of the Red Chamber is known for her wisdom and good household management skills, she is too petty and ends up being "too clever and scheming, and ends up costing her beloved's life." Chen Peng Dream Interpretation (WeChat: chenpengjm) mentions a term here, called mental appearance. When the mental appearance conflicts with the truth, please maintain the mental appearance. Having a broad vision is the basis for a person to have foresight. Being good at communication, reading, understanding the outside world and learning new life skills is the only way to prevent oneself from decaying and to prevent the entire family from lagging behind society.

5. Abandon habits that bring detrimental to your family’s fortune.

In addition to the well-known criminal habits of stealing, cheating and even worse, sloppy habits and dirty habits, Chen Peng's Dream Interpretation Organization has compiled the eleven habits that are most detrimental to family fortune. Let's get rid of them together.

1) The habit of swearing.

Literacy is an important criterion for measuring a family's education, and morality is a means to test literacy. Speaking foul language is considered a sign of low quality, which will cause gentlemen to stay away and villains to gather around. Speaking foul language can easily lead to bloody disasters and all kinds of troubles.

2) The habit of sighing, the habit of showing off one’s illnesses, the habit of complaining, the habit of frowning and pursing one’s lips.

There is an old saying that sighing will cause three years of bad luck. The habit of showing off one's illnesses and complaining will first lead to family disharmony, and then will make one's health worse and worse. Habitual frowning and pursing will easily lead to loneliness and loss of popularity.

3) The habit of picking the nose in public, rolling the eyes, picking the teeth without covering, and picking the feet.

Picking your nose will lead to losing money, rolling your eyes will attract villains and cause trouble, and picking your teeth and feet in public without any cover will make people despise you. These are not good for your luck with noble people.

4) Habits that harm the body, such as piercing the ears in multiple places.

Chen Peng once wrote an article against ear piercing because it is harmful to one's fortune. He was referring to the normal practice of piercing two ear holes. As long as the earrings you wear are not too ostentatious, it will add points to women. But if you pierce a bunch of holes in your ears or make them in a irregular pattern, it will reduce your blessings. Habits that harm the body also include tattooing images or texts on the body that are not aesthetically pleasing according to local customs, staying up late, drinking alcohol, overeating, dieting, indulging in sexual activities, not treating illness, and hiding one's illness from medical treatment, all of which will reduce one's blessings.

5) The habit of being kind without principles and without bottom line.

Some people often forward cursed texts and say that forwarding them will bring blessings and longevity to their families. Some people will sympathize with the normal legal treatment suffered by a murderer who robs and kills people. Some people will release poisonous snakes and rats in places where people often walk. Some people will eat, drink and have fun with people who have just committed violence against their families. They like to make friends with criminals and hooligans and are proud to associate with them. They make friends with people who often do immoral things and make friends with people who make jokes without any bottom line. All these kind behaviors without bottom line and kind habits without principles will cause people with these habits to lose their family, friends, property and even their own lives that need attention and care. A friend of mine told me during consultation that there was a person who often insulted his parents in public and he just couldn’t forget his hatred for him. The answer given by Chen Peng's dream interpretation is: Kindness must have a bottom line and principles. For this kind of person, you need to let him know your principles. Of course, scolding each other is the worst revenge. Confucius said: Repay grievances with justice, and repay kindness with kindness.

6) The habit of not wanting to express oneself and the habit of lying.

Is silence golden? Do people who understand you need no explanation? In fact, expressing your intention is a respect for the other party. If you don't know how to express yourself, it's easy for people to misinterpret your wishes, and then get unwanted or unpleasant results. The grievances and anger that result from this are actually caused by the ignorant habit of not wanting to express oneself. It is even more difficult to have good family fortune! If you are unwilling to express yourself, people will misunderstand you and cause bad family fortune. Then, the habit of lying will tarnish your family fortune. Habitual lying will lead to not having any real friends. It is too difficult to have good relationships with people! It is even more difficult to have enough noble luck! The lonely life pattern is most often seen in people who habitually lie.

7) The habit of greed.

It is easy to encounter legal troubles, villains, and various disasters. This habit includes taking advantage of others, gambling, etc.

8) Unruly habits in the bedroom.

The bedroom is a place to rest and recuperate, not a place for you to meditate or chant, not a place for you to work, and not a place for you to entertain outsiders. Especially for married families where the couple has not yet entered menopause, you should never allow other messy elements to enter this private bedroom. Otherwise, the family will be in disharmony and easily fall apart. The habit of leaving the bedroom door open can easily lead to family disharmony, especially the relationship between husband and wife, which can cause many problems due to the lack of harmony with other family members.

9) The habit of throwing away change and the habit of spending money recklessly.

It will cause loss of family wealth and make it difficult to save. It is easy to get into trouble when spending money at critical moments and end up in poverty.

10) The habit of being willful and arrogant.

Being willful is a kind of behavior that makes you lose your temper. It is an act of doing things without considering your body, economic conditions, or other people's feelings. Arrogance is a synonym for doing whatever one wants. The former is likely to harm oneself, while the latter is likely to encounter villains and suffer unexpected disasters. Arrogant habits include smoking, spitting, making noise, and making exaggerated gestures in public.

11) The arms are bent outwards, which means the person does not love home.

This kind of person is often referred to by the public as someone who comes to collect debts. He does not like outsiders to his family members. He gives all kinds of benefits and charity to outsiders, but is cold and indifferent to his family members. He is disloyal and unfilial. It is impossible for him to have a good family fortune. Only when you know honor and disgrace can you have virtue! If you don't have virtue, you don't deserve family fortune. If you don't take it, God will take it away!