Can Guyu go back to her parents’ home in 2021? Are there any taboos during Grain Rain?
The frequent rain and frost make the air clear and peaceful, the willows are green, the tea is fragrant, and the swallows shuttle back and forth. Grain Rain is coming. Do you want to know more about the almanac for Grain Rain in 2021? In March, when spring is in full bloom, everything on earth is peaceful. Are the days in the third month of the lunar calendar also good? Come to Shuimoxiansheng.com to learn more about the auspicious days in March of the lunar calendar in 2021.Can Guyu go back to her parents’ home in 2021?Lunar calendar: March 9, 2021 Gregorian calendar: April 20, 2021, Tuesday, Dragon (Ren Chen) inauspicious direction North【The old almanac is suitable】 [Do not use Yang Gong's death anniversary for important events] Cleaning, offering sacrifices, seeking medical treatment [Taboo in the old almanac] According to the lunar calendar of Grain Rain in 2021, this day is " Yang Gong's inauspicious day " and no important events should be held, so it is not suitable to go back to your mother's home . However, there is no saying that you cannot go back to your parents' home during the Grain Rain solar term, so there is no need to worry if you need to go back for something. Are there any taboos during Grain Rain?1. Avoid scorpions during Grain RainThe practice of banning scorpions during the Grain Rain Festival was popular among the Han people in the old days, such as: In Shandong area, there is a superstitious activity of writing talismans with cinnabar to ward off scorpions; in Linyi, Shanxi, people sprinkle ash wine on the wall, which is called "warding off scorpions"; in Tongguan and Mizhi, Shaanxi, people will stick talismans to suppress scorpions on the wall, which is believed to be able to get rid of scorpions. 2. Avoid earthwork during Grain Rain In Liling, Hunan, people are forbidden to dig on the day of Grain Rain and leave the land fallow for the day. There is a saying that goes "Cows rest on Grain Rain and people stop cooking on Grain Rain." 3. Avoid setting wildfires during Grain Rain In the Zhuang ethnic group areas of my country, it is taboo to set fires outdoors on the day of Grain Rain. It is said that Grain Rain is a good time for rain. If you light a fire in the wild on this day, it will anger the Thunder God, causing little rain and early dryness in the world throughout the year, affecting people's agricultural production. What should I pay attention to when returning to my parents’ home?Both the Han and Manchu ethnic groups have the custom of not having sex when a newly married couple returns to her parents' home. The Manchus allowed the son-in-law to live on the west kang, but other guests were not allowed to do so. But a girl and her husband cannot live together. It is said that if a newly married couple sleeps together in her parents' home, it will cause the family's fortunes to decline. This is also caused by the idea that sexual behavior is unclean and blasphemous.The Han people often believe that in matters between men and women, women always suffer losses. For this reason, the girl's family always feels a little depressed psychologically. Besides, the parents’ family and the husband’s family are not of the same bloodline, so the parents’ family cannot be the place to continue the family line. If the pregnancy is really in her parents' home, then the "human power" and "financial power" of her parents' home will be brought to her husband's home, and her parents' home will decline as a result. Therefore, it is forbidden for a young couple to sleep together in the wife’s parents’ home. However, among the Han ethnic group, there are many places where it is not taboo for newlyweds to sleep in the same bed at the bride's home. Sometimes two completely different customs will coexist in the same county. For example, in Lin County, Henan Province, these two customs exist simultaneously. Of course, these traditional customs are no longer applicable today, and most people no longer care about these issues. However, if your family members have particularities in this regard, it is best to respect them and abide by them appropriately. Do you want to know your own Bazi? Want to figure out where your golden marriage is? Click on the [Premium Calculation] below to calculate your horoscope and fortune! |
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