Is May 21, 2019, the Grain Full Festival, a suitable day for engagement? Is it auspicious to get engaged on Grain Full Festival?

Is May 21, 2019, the Grain Full Festival, a suitable day for engagement? Is it auspicious to get engaged on Grain Full Festival?
Introduction: In our country’s traditional culture, it is also necessary to choose an auspicious day for engagement. So is May 21, 2019, the Grain Full Day, suitable for engagement? Is Grain Full Day auspicious or not? April in the lunar calendar has entered summer and the temperature has warmed up. April is also known as Mengxia, Yinyue and Meiyue. Want to know whether the fourth month of the lunar calendar is a good day or not? Then go to Shuimoxiansheng.com to check out the April 2019 Lunar Calendar special topic.

Is May 21, 2019, the Grain Full Festival, a suitable day for engagement? Is it auspicious to get engaged on Grain Full Festival?

Query the lunar calendar for Xiaoman on May 21, 2019:
April 17, 2019 (Lunar calendar)
May 21, 2019, Tuesday, Gemini (solar calendar)
【Today’s lunar calendar is suitable】
Taking office, entering the house, praying for blessings, fasting and offering sacrifices, seeking offspring, lifting the pillars, planting livestock, traveling, raising livestock, seeking wealth, seeking medical treatment, and consecrating.
[Today’s taboos in the almanac]
Open a pond, buy property, build, break ground, sail, marry, move, raise the beam, bury, and accept marriage proposal
From the above contents of the lunar calendar, we can know that getting married [i.e. engagement] on the day of Xiaoman on May 21, 2019 is taboo in the lunar calendar, so today is not a suitable day for engagement!

What are the taboos of engagement?

(1) Avoid using unlucky names in betrothal gifts
In the old days, after the man’s family selected an auspicious date, they would bring gift money and gifts to the woman’s family 15 to 20 days before the wedding. Generally, this ceremony is very grand, because the amount of the gift the man gives to the woman not only reflects how much he values ​​the woman, but also reflects the financial status of his family.
Each item in the betrothal gift should have an auspicious name. For example, during the Sui and Tang dynasties, there were nine fixed betrothal gifts, including cassia bark, Jiahe, donkey-hide gelatin, cattail leaf, red reed, double stones, cotton wool, longevity thread, dry lacquer, etc. Each item has the meaning of blessing the couple's love to last forever.
(2) Avoid giving betrothal gifts in odd numbers
The number should also be even rather than odd, because even numbers are a symbol of good luck and there is an old saying among the people that "good things come in pairs". The odd number is an unlucky symbol and is therefore taboo.
(3) Avoid including shoes in the betrothal gift
In some places, it is taboo to include shoes in the betrothal gift because people are afraid that the woman will wear the shoes and run away.
(4) Avoid putting meat filling in the betrothal gift box
In some places, it is taboo to put meat filling in the gift box of betrothal gifts. It is said that if meat filling is put in the gift box, the new bride will be slow in temper and will be slow in doing things after she gets married.
(5) Avoid the woman returning the empty gift box to the man
After the betrothal gifts are delivered to the woman's family, they are forbidden to return the empty gift box to the man. Generally, part of the food will be returned to the man's home, or the clothes prepared by the woman for the man will be placed in a gift box for the man to take back. According to the custom in the Central Plains, the man must bring a rooster when sending a betrothal gift, which means good luck. When the woman receives the betrothal gift, she does not keep the rooster and takes back a hen. The hen must be alive, and white is not recommended, as it is unlucky to have a white hen with other hens.

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